It’s Because of Them

In our generation, it’s not that often that we see a deep mother and child relationship. Well, maybe a child and Smart phones relationship will do. But not as the old time that we spend and make lots of memories with our parents.

Nobody knows who or what to blame why most of the teenagers now have that power to get easily rid to their parents which tends them to feel disrespected. It seems like it is very easy for the teens to get out of the house and shout for whatever hard feelings they had on that particular scenario. But what’s the epic scene is that, you, we, every one of us will come to the point that we’ll realized that we need our parent. Indeed, we need them very bad.

Parents are not just parent

From the very beginning that we started to breathe here on earth, they become our protector. Our very first doctor, teacher and guidance councilor. They became our feet when we started to walk, they became our mouth when we started to talk and they became our eyes when started to grow.

In every successful man, there’s always a parent who help them to climb up and reach for the success that they dreamed. Even before we start to build our goals, our parents were the one who gives us the knowledge and ideas on what we want to be in the future.

Forever is For Real with Them

We have 2,000 plus friends in our social media world, but maybe it will not reach a hundred plus when we started counting who among them are our real friends. In that hundred plus people, half of it were concerned, half of it were not. And in that range of people, we cannot easily tell who we can trust. But one thing is for sure, your parents are one of them.

Yes, we will be in a relationship wherein we can really feel that we are complete. Wherein you will hear  promises that you guys will be in forever. But if it’s really not meant to be, that promise will be a memory. Unlike with our parents, even though we do not literally hear promises of forever with them, they just do it. From the very start, up until the end. When all else fail, they never will. When your boyfriends or girlfriends screw up with you, your parents will be there to fix you. Even if we get mad to them for many times, they are still there. Willing to listen and still accepting all your flaws and imperfections. They are the one who loves us unconditionally.

Listen and Accept Them

We teenagers usually get annoyed when our parents enter our social life. Especially when they prohibit us for the things that we want to do. When they get mad, many bad thoughts are starting to play in our minds followed by make faces.  But let’s just think, why are they doing that? Parents don’t want anything to harm us, they won’t allow no one to hurt us and they always know what’s the best for us. That answers it all. They invested on us for so long and they don’t want that to be useless.  If they’re getting mad, listen. If they continue to talk and talk and talk, listen. They are just people, same as you. Let them honor their emotions. They will not do that if you’ve done the first wrong move. If you think that they’re not getting your point, talk to them as calm as you can. Because if you still insist on want you want, conversation will never end. You’ll end up losing. Upset. Mad.

Above all, respect them. It’s because of them why you are here. It’s their responsibility to give us the whole world. And our responsibility to respect, love and took care of the world that they built for us.